Do you ever have those moments where you feel
like you’re going out of way to do EVERYTHING right, and yet the Universe is
basically just spanking you in the rear showing you that you’re, in fact, doing
everything kinda wrong? Do ya? Do you know what I mean?
Here’s how it went down: so, we enjoy eating
out. We used to eat out fairly
frequently (at least a couple of times a month). We ate out A LOT when the house was on the
market and we’d get a call at 4pm saying, “We’ll be there to see your house at
5:30.” Not a ton of healthy-home cooked
meals were a-happenin’. BUT, now that we’re
on a much tighter budget, we rarely eating out.
And that is why we DID eat out last night.
We know the boys love Red Robin and we’re
able to get gift cards through points earned with our credit card. So, we’ve been saving the RR gift card to go
for a special near-Matthew’s birthday outing.
We even had a free meal coupon to use as well. My dear friend Rachel is staying with us for
a couple of days, so she also could join in the festivities. All around, it seemed like a good idea,
right?
Well, shortly after arriving, Kayli started
to be a fit-throwing toddler-rage person.
She’s been a picky eater lately and my guess is that she was kinda
starving since she hasn’t been eating all that much at meals. Then, Mike and I discovered that we didn’t
actually have the RR gift card with us.
The whole point of going to Red Robin, the whole reason we could do it
in the first place, was because of this gift card. But we’d already ordered food and couldn’t
just pack up and leave, so…there was that.
Then, after eating a little bit, Zach suddenly announced that he felt
like he was going to throw up. If you
know us, you know that we’re kind of a pukey people. It’s what we do. And we’re pretty good at it. Mike quickly steered Zach towards the
restroom only to find a couple of people standing in the way, blocking the
door. I don’t know if they were coming
or going or if loitering outside Red Robin restrooms is something they do for
kicks, but unfortunately they were doing it at the wrong place and at the wrong
time. Zachary proceeded to vomit all
over the floor. Awesome.
We can now add Red Robin to the list of
restaurants that we have, er, marked. Also
on that list are: The Olive Garden – ‘when you’re there, you’re family’ and I
guess we felt just a little too at home.
McDonalds – that Zachary sprayed with Easter candy rainbow vomit, and
Jack in the Box, where Matthew finally let his ‘car sick’ outta the car. I don’t
think anyone will ever invite us out ever and really, I don’t think we SHOULD
eat out for a VERY long time…or maybe ever.
Mike left to take Zachary and Kayli home
while Rachel, Matthew and I calmly finished our meal and then split the check
(the sweetheart!) for the meal that we really shouldn’t have had to pay for and
sadly didn’t really manage to enjoy.
So, the money thing: we’re on a tighter
budget now, which I DO think is a good thing.
It’s definitely more stressful, but it makes us count every penny we
spend. We eat home, so we’re eating
healthier food; the kids know that they’re not going to get whatever they ask
for (though I’d like to think that they didn’t even before either); we’re just
getting more creative and spending less.
Anyway, I feel like, again, we’re doing a good job, we’re trying anyway and
yet…and yet…we had to get new tires and breaks for the minivan – Boom $$$. We had to buy a new furnace (which we knew we’d
have to do) – BOOM $$$$$!!! We got the
bill for Kayliana’s trip to the ER on our anniversary – OUCH $$$$!! We got the bill for her second elbow
relocation – OWIE $$$. Mike and I haven’t
been to the dentist in two years (yikes!), but his work doesn’t provide dental,
so we’d have to pay out of pocket for that. Not gonna happen right now. The boys are now
due for a dentist check-up, and I dread setting up the appointment because of
what it will cost. Wah wah wah. Whine whine
whine.
Obviously, we CHOSE to move, we KNEW we’d
have a bigger mortgage and a tighter budget, I just wish the universe would
stop pooping on us!
But then, just when I’m so super frustrated
with things going just kinda-a-little-puke-ily wrong, something amazing
happens. Kayliana and I nearly get hit
by a car. This was amazing because we
WEREN’T hit by a car. We were walking from
Spin at the gym today down the shopping complex to the Safeway. Kayli wanted to walk and kept stopping and
was taking her sweet time which was fine with me as we weren’t in a big hurry,
so I let her linger. We’d just started
walking after another little for-whatever-reason break, when an old man floored
it instead of stepping on the break and proceeded to drive his car (about
twenty feet in front of us) on to the sidewalk and up against the brick wall of
the building. Without much pause, he
quickly threw the car into reverse and went to a different parking spot in the
lot as if nothing had really happened and he hadn’t just smashed his car into a
building, leaving chunks of his hood and bumper on the sidewalk.
I’m thankful that we weren’t the chunks on
the sidewalk. Thank you, Universe. Thank you, God!
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